Can you learn to dance if you have no rhythm?

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You'll stop thinking about the steps and enjoy the moment..
My brain understands but my feet won't work!
The other thing that holds adults back is muscle memory - the patterns of movement that we've learned growing up.

Your body likes doing repetitive movements - stuff it already knows and doesn't have to think about. Dance requires you to move your arms and legs in strange and unusual ways. Your eyes may watch and your brain may comprehend, but it can take a while for it to direct your limbs to interpret these new and unfamiliar movements.

Be patient with yourself and understand it's the way your body works. Eventually, these new movements will become part of your muscle memory, too, and you'll be able to do them almost without thinking.

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It's not you, it's me
If you've tried to learn dancing and failed miserably, don't be too quick to give up.

In dancing as in any other skill, there are good teachers and bad teachers. A good teacher should take that into account. A good teacher should be able to explain steps, not just demonstrate them, and be able to correct students who are making mistakes, without making them feel picked-on.

The other possibility is that you picked a style of dance that doesn't suit you, or was too technical. If you've never danced before, the complex rhythms and fast footwork of flamenco would be too much of a challenge as a first dance style. If you're inflexible, I wouldn't recommend ballet or jazz to start with - do some yoga first, or pilates.

A good starting point for most people is social dancing like Ballroom, Latin or Street Latin, Swing or modern jive (Ceroc etc). You don't need to bring your own partner - most schools rotate partners so you won't feel left out if you're on your own.

For women, belly dancing is a good introduction because it's gentle, the environment is very supportive and the beginners' steps are simple. In Australia, you can find a belly dance class in your suburb on the Australian Belly Dance Video Directory.


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I got rhythm...
The final - and unfortunately, the biggest - stumbling block is rhythm. Going back to those dancing children - they all dance when the music plays, but you'll notice that some dance in sync with the beat, whereas others bop around with no reference to the rhythm.

Those children who keep time without thinking are lucky. A lack of rhythm is by far the biggest obstacle to learning to dance - but it's not insurmountable. I used to think a sense of rhythm was inborn - you either had it or you didn't.

Then I started flamenco. All of a sudden I was in a different world - songs with 12 beats to the bar, routines that started on 12 instead of 1 - even melodies in 3/4 or 4/4 time seemed to cut across the rhythm in strange ways.